Women! Women! Women! How many times have I called you? Women, I speak to you.

Do not stay in an abusive relationship in the name of “He will change”,”He was never like this,maybe it’s something I did” and all those lies you keep telling yourself because you do not want to deal with the pain of your reality.

Is that how you wanted your life to turn out really?Is that what you want your kids to perceive as the concept of marriage?Women! Women! let’s end the societal perception of marriage ati “Mwanamke ni kuvumilia”,”akikupiga,go down in prayer and pray for him”,akikukosea msamehe”Like,Dear society! is he a human pro then we females are just human human?

Well,I know we all humans and no one is superior than the other…We serve respect with alot of measure when we love our self.In that case you wouldn’t even need to create a scene, you’ll just walk away.

So well,Sweetie, if he raises that hand at you respect yourself enough to walk away,if he beats you up then aaah Love tembeza kiatu…Mambo ya women getting bartered na bado wanarudi hapo tuliacha na huko 1970 when women didn’t know any better.

Respect yourself enough in all circumstances…If he ain’t responsible for the kids then take that mantle and care for your kids,leave his ass…If he cheats then aargh sweetheart bado unajichochea nini ati “maybe sikumfanyia hivi”.Hey love, cheating is a choice, it’s never an accident…Hizi normalizations za society on the things men can do can make me vomit at times.

I’ll emphasize this “LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF ENOUGH”. It will get you out of unworthy situations alot.