The constant urge to get validated by others could be the very reason why you ain’t moving.I mean yeah,getting validated would most definitely feel good,but sweetie why focus your all just on it.

I mean you are whole without it all.All the energy  you fixating sijui on oooh who did you wrong,who ignored your calls,who talked ill of you,sijui oooh who took advantage of your kindness.Plus ooh sijui who doesn’t like you.

Sweetheart you ain’t ice cream for everyone to like you,matter of fact trust me there’s still someone who hates on ice cream besides it just being after offering you sweetness.

So,you know what,just do you, spread love and kindness and never ever expect anything in return and on top of it all,learn to get happiness in your own ways.Trust me,you are your own joy and you the very best person at offering yourself that.

On top of it all,Bless you🖤.